So many couples want a simple ceremony/signing at my home or at theirs but they don’t know exactly what that entails or includes. I’m writing this to answer that question. Technically, the legal side of getting married is very short. Very. It entails two essential questions – the first asks you to confirm that there […]

Before we get into the nitty gritty, let me say that once we’ve jumped over all the hurdles and laid our careful plan to get you and your fiance engaged, there is so much excitement and joy awaiting you. You’re getting married in Cape Town. Cape Town!!! It’s magnificent. And more than that, you’re getting […]

Last night Kit muttered “soap” in her sleep. I know why that four letter word accompanies others in the middle of the night. Others like “Mama”, after which I whisper, “Mama loves you”. Words like “Momo”, after which I tell her, “I’m here”. Soap. I hear “soap”and smile in the dark. It’s from a game […]